Some female educators are victims of their husbands’ affairs

Some female educators are victims of their husbands’ affairs

Many teachers are overworked and have little time for their families. They spent more time at school and at home working on all of the needed documents, such as lesson plans, class records, school reports, summative and formative tests, action plans, and response sheets from students to be checked at home. Teachers are studying their lessons and producing instructional materials for the students’ visual aids at night in preparation for the principal observation. Due to emotional and physical tiredness, the wife refuses her husband’s pleas for sexual contact for several nights, which causes a rift between them. You can’t question the husband since he needs time for her, but he must understand his wife because it is his wife’s obligation as a worker to perform her jobs. He assisted his wife in preparing all of the necessary documentation so that when they were through, they could perform all of the love-making they desired instead of seeking someone else to do it.

No one can comprehend the work of teachers unless they themselves have a similar career or profession. Teachers describe their jobs in a variety of ways. Every day is difficult, and they’re constantly racing against the clock. I feel that if teachers simply focused on educating their students and were not given any other jobs, they would not be as busy on Saturdays, Sundays, and holidays. If the teachers are blaming their jobs, I believe she should quit, but when and how should she do so? Her family’s only means of survival is teaching. The husband never remits his earnings to his wife and spends or sustains his money on other women, especially if the husband is parsimonious. As a result, the wife works part-time in order to add her income. At home, the wife is in charge of paying all of the bills. Aside from regular food consumption, her children also require school tuition expenses, which the wife finds to be a burden. She appears to be carrying a huge cross that no one is assisting her with. To keep her children with their father, she makes her life a living hell. The wife is being choked by the situation. She is constantly engaged in a war that she does not know when will come to an end. You can’t claim there aren’t any martyrs in the world, but if you’re a wife, I believe you can say, “Oh, this is even harder; you can’t live with or separate from your husband right away because you have children.”

Many teachers are victims of their husbands’ affairs. Her husband returns home earlier in the morning and does not spend the night at home. He had just gotten out of the bath and changed into his work clothes. He’s having an affair with another woman, who could be a coworker, a college student, or an unemployed lady who is her husband’s mistress. When the husband returned home, his cellphone had a password or he was always holding to it throughout the house. When a phone call comes in, the husband moves away from his children and wife to a location where no one can hear them. He put his smartphone by him when he went to sleep, assuring himself that no one would get it while he was sleeping. The wife must be wondering why her husband is always clutching to his smartphone wherever he goes. However, if you are a wise wife, you can simply identify if your husband is dating someone else. That is a wife’s instinct, and she can tell if her husband is playing with fire. Are you aware that actions speak louder than words? If you don’t want to be blind, you won’t be. Your husband is cheating on you in a number of ways.

  1. Your husband takes a bath after a long day at work and then leaves your house late at night, claiming that they will drink liquor with friends and company. I believe there is a major mystery going on here.
  2. Your husband is silently texting and covertly answering the anonymous call with a low voice, or he is conversing with someone on the phone in the comfort room.
  3. Drinking might also indicate that someone is cheating on you since they are inebriated. Of course, one of those young ladies could be your husband’s girlfriend. Do you realize how many things people can do while they’re inebriated? When the wife permits her husband to go out every night and only returns home early in the morning to take a wash and change his uniform, the affair gets more serious.
  4. I believe that an anonymous call on the line is another clue that your husband is calling someone. And as a wife, you never get a phone call from your spouse.
  5. When your spouse leaves the house, he puts perfume all over his t-shirt or uniform to the point where the perfume is almost empty.
  6.  He always checked in the mirror when he got home, and he was very conscious of his hair, body abs, and arm muscles.
  7. When his children or wife ask for a ride or to accompany them, he always makes reasons.
  8. When you approach him about his tendency of leaving the house for no apparent reason, he becomes enraged.
  9. He doesn’t have time for you and your family. He desired to leave your home in order to be with his mistress.
  10. When you ask for his pay or money to help with your basic requirements, house expenses, or student education, there is always no money.

These are normal signs that most husbands display when they cheat on you, but there are certain indicators that you can’t accept since they are so clean that even you as a wife, are unable to determine whether your husband is having an affair with another woman. Every relationship has flaws. A husband and wife might make a lot of mistakes. But don’t solely blame your wife for her lack of time for you; you, as her husband, have also had issues with her. Your wife is always concerned about where she can find money for your daily necessities due to a lack of financial support. Both couples, not only the wife, should assist each other. They need to figure out how to support the family. Consider the challenges your wife is dealing with. Perhaps you’ve noticed that she needs assistance. When you’re already engaged to another woman or guy, trust is a broad word that’s difficult to define. I believe trust has already been betrayed, and regaining it will be difficult. It takes a long time to recuperate completely, and the wounded heart is difficult to mend. Time will heal the wounds, but I believe trust and love will be lost permanently if you have an unlawful affair on a regular basis. – Doki | Helpline PH

1 thought on “Some female educators are victims of their husbands’ affairs”

  1. I hate men like this. But there is already a law that protects the rights of women and children. We can use this against these kinds of men. VAWC is the only answer for this.

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