Career Vs Family: What would you choose?
After schooling, having a job is one of the most valuable blessings. A job is crucial because it establishes the parameters for determining when and where to look for a life partner. Many people are having difficulty finding work, while others are fortunate enough to find work quickly after graduating from college. In my opinion, which is more important: having a job or starting a family? A family is also crucial for living in peace without a career. I believe your relationship will not endure without a career because work and family should be combined in order to have a long-term relationship. To have a fruitful and harmonious existence, be sure that work and family will go together.
One of the most common reasons youngsters continue to study is that their parents recognize that if their children marry and are unemployed, it will be a major problem for them. That is why parents encourage their children to complete their education so that they can obtain better employment with higher pay. Parents must lead and encourage their children to continue and complete their studies. Many young children are raised in homes where their parents do not work. Because the father and mother do not have a permanent job, they are bearing many small children without nourishment. As a result, their children are growing up without receiving an education. They live on the streets, begging for money or alms from passers-by. Could you imagine the plight of children who are forced to live and sleep on the streets with their parents? There are no permanent addresses or residences. The majority of them work part-time in the market, as street sellers, or as garbage collectors/dumpers.
Education serves as a stepping stone toward realizing your aim of becoming a professional and earning the money that your parents cannot provide while you are in school. You won’t be able to reach your objective of a better career and family life if you don’t get an education. When you have a graduate degree and a stable career, life is good. You might enjoy the comforts of life even if you are not wealthy but have steady work. Many people are uneducated due to their unwillingness to go to school or continue their studies, even if their parents have the financial means to do so. Because of illness or death, their parents will eventually be unable to support them. Poverty could be the end result.
Time cannot be reversed; realization must occur on time. Encourage yourself to work while the iron is hot and your body is able to. Time is limitless, but if you don’t work, you’re wasting it and missing out on the chance to live a better life. I’ve noticed that several couples have both professionals, but their relationships suffer as a result of separation. What went wrong with these couples? Due to their work, the couple had a fight. Because they don’t spend time with each other, the wife or husband becomes envious, especially if they work in a call center and have separate schedules. The wife works the night shift and the husband works the day shift. They haven’t seen each other in quite some time. As a result, in this type of relationship, adultery occurs. Only long-distance relationships (LDR) are said to have affairs, according to my understanding. But there’s a flaw in my plan. This type of unfavorable event could occur in any employment situation. Why is it that there is such a high rate of infidelity?
Nowadays, the problem of adultery is widespread, and we might refer to it as a common action of coercion or peer pressure. Even teachers have the same amount of time to work, but imagine your wife or spouse taking a different road, having an affair with a coworker or a student. Time, in my opinion, is not a barrier to a couple’s connection lasting forever. It’s about sincerity, sensitivity, love, and care. Did you notice these characteristics in your partner? If you find these attributes in your spouse, consider yourself really fortunate. But don’t be too sure of yourself because of multimedia, temptations are everywhere. Others blame their jobs for their inability to spend time with their families. There are no issues if a career and a family are married together. Work and family life should complement each other. It’s a major question mark if you’re successful at work but not in your family. Is it true that even if you achieve success in life, you may still feel lonely due to a family dysfunction relationship? It is unhealthy to have a conflict between your job and your family. You can’t live without a solid job, and you can’t have a stable family if you’re unemployed. We are in the midst of a financial crisis as a result of the pandemic, and many people have lost their jobs. Do you believe couples can be successful in their relationship without a career? Always keep in mind that family and work are both necessary for survival. Couples have always faced difficulties. Nevertheless, a crisis is a test of time. If both partners persevere in the face of adversity and never give up, their family will be stronger than before. Allowing your job to become an impediment to your family is a huge mistake because having these two is a huge blessing.
In my opinion, spend time with your family if you have a job. Don’t devote all of your time to your career or work. Work will always be waiting for you to come in, whereas your family will not be entire or intact all of the time. When children reach adulthood or complete their education, they may seek out their own family. Bonding is one strategy to keep your connection strong and intimate so that you don’t succumb to temptation. You are inviting unanticipated temptations into your home if you do not engage in this activity. Many men and women, even if married, are family destroyers, gold diggers, and willing to mingle. What they want is for someone to give them sex for satisfaction without affection and money for the things they want that their husbands/wives can’t afford to give them. Other married ladies claim that their husbands work far away from their family or work abroad to make ends meet. These women have nothing to do with their lives; all they want is to be happy every day. As a result, they may approach married men since married men intrigue them and provide thrills and excitement. This type of lady doesn’t have a face to hide behind, and she doesn’t have a heart to feel pain. When you’re in front of this woman, you’re the one who feels embarrassed. Keep an eye on your partner’s coworkers or office buddy. Being an NBI is preferable to being blind. Regardless of the couple’s difficulties, remember that your career is your hope and the future of your children. Always keep in mind that if you lose your career, your children’s future is lost as well. When you advance in your career, your children’s future is completely secure. It is preferable to focus on your work rather than engage bad aliens who wish to destroy your children’s future. Don’t let your labor trick you; instead, organize it. Show your potential that you have the talents that others lack by being a good worker, improving your performance, and being competent. Always be grateful to God for providing you with a job and a paycheck.
People are also motivated if they labor on a regular basis and are paid monthly or biweekly. Your labor is the best way for God to bless you. Others may not appreciate your job, so you must stay determined and positive. If you don’t have stable employment, it’s preferable not to start a family, because your wife and children will suffer. Permanent employment is required for both the husband and the wife. Previously, only the husband had to work, leaving the wife to raise their children at home, but this is no longer the case. They’re both on par. A father is the home’s pillar, while a mother is the home’s light. As a result, they are both strong and always understand each other. Which do you value more: work or family? Your decision will be based on the circumstances. We can stay without our families, but we can’t exist without a job. Because the clock is ticking too rapidly, it is best to stay in your career. When the time comes, you can start your own family when you are ready. In life, you can boost your self-esteem by being determined. When the moment comes, stay true to your mate. Trust, love, and faithfulness are the secrets of a long-term partnership. Whatever the temptations may be, if you are committed to each other, you will be able to overcome all of life’s challenges. A permanent job and a family are priceless gifts from God that cannot be matched by diamonds or riches. – Doki | Helpline PH