6-Year-Old Traumatized by Teacher
A 6-year-old traumatized by teacher lost his excitement for school after his first day in Grade 1. The boy, Prince Aaron Dumaop Yudan, went home crying after being scolded and pinched by his teacher. His mother, Trish Khea Yudan Bulosan, shared the story online, which touched many parents and netizens.
What Happened to the Boy?
Aaron was very excited on his first day of school. He woke up at 3 AM and proudly told his mother, “Ma, sunduin mo na lang ako mamaya, big boy na ako.”
But when Trish came to pick him up, his teacher told her:
“Ma’am, si Aaron naiwan sa room. Hindi siya marunong sumulat. Sa lahat ng estudyante, siya lang talaga ang hindi marunong.”
When Trish entered the classroom, she saw Aaron crying hard. His tears had soaked his paper. She was shocked because she knew Aaron could write. She had been teaching him at home.
Why Was Aaron Afraid?
When they got home, Trish asked Aaron why he didn’t write in school. The boy admitted he was afraid of his teacher because he was scolded and pinched on the hand for not writing fast.
To confirm, Trish asked him to write at home, and he could write his name and other words properly. He just needed patience and clear instructions, especially since this was his first time in a face-to-face class.
How the Trauma Affected Him
The incident deeply affected Aaron:
- He now refuses to go back to school.
- He asks his mother if other kids also get pinched by teachers.
- He cries in his sleep and has nightmares about his teacher.
- He feels sad and jealous of friends who happily attend school.
Trish said, “Sobrang sakit makita sa bata na nawalan siya ng gana mag-aral dahil sa takot.”
Parent’s Message to Teachers
Trish made a request to teachers, especially those handling kindergarten and Grade 1 students:
- Be patient. Young kids are still adjusting to school life.
- Avoid scolding or shaming children in class. It can hurt their confidence.
- Guide them gently. Many young learners only need time and encouragement.
Trish also reported the incident to the school, but she felt no proper action was taken.
What Parents Can Do in Similar Situations
If your child experiences something like this, you can:
- Talk to your child. Let them share what happened without feeling scared.
- Report to the school. Ask for a meeting with the teacher to solve the problem.
- Support your child emotionally. Praise their efforts and practice writing at home in a fun way.
- Seek help if trauma continues. A child psychologist can help them recover from fear.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
How do I know if my child is traumatized by a teacher?
If your child refuses to go to school, cries often, or looks scared when talking about the teacher, they may be traumatized.
Should I talk to the teacher?
Yes, but stay calm. Talk to the teacher and the school to understand the situation and find a solution.
Can my child recover from this experience?
Yes. With patience, love, and encouragement, children can regain confidence.
How can teachers avoid traumatizing students?
Teachers should use positive teaching methods, give encouragement, and avoid physical punishment.
This incident reminds us that teachers have a big role in shaping a child’s love for learning. A single harsh action can make a young student fear school. Parents and teachers must work together to make schools a safe and happy place for children.
